Can I make a difference?

Over the last few weeks I have repeatedly come across this question.  Through discussions with friends, articles and videos on internet and the latest, a popular Indian TV show, Satyameva Jayate, this question keeps coming back. Can I make a difference? If yes, then how and when? Should I even care? Would that be too idealistic?

Even after 65 years of independence my motherland, India, and its people have not been able to get rid of numerous problems. In fact many new problems have cropped up. Every day is a challenge for many people, a puzzle to be solved… the solution to which would get them their next meal probably. I can safely say that I am one of the lucky minorities who live a relatively easy life. Then is it not my responsibility or duty or moral obligation (I don’t know the apt word here) to do whatever is in my capacity to help someone solve their puzzles?

I know people who have given up everything in their lives to help someone. Even when the riches of this world would have been within arms’ reach for them. I would not call them selfless because I guess that’s what gives them happiness. But I am pretty sure, how much ever I think of making a difference, I cannot give up many things I have in my life. Call me selfish or insensitive for saying this aloud, but that’s the truth for most of us. It is also true that I do not crave for too much money and would not mind giving up some of whatever I get to make a difference in someone’s life. Although, with a family in picture, this decision would not be solely my own. Giving my time and skills (with my MBA :P ) for some cause is another option. But again, with a career in balance, how much of your time can you give up?

So that’s the thing. Right now, it is just random thoughts troubling me. It is troubling because I know I will not be making too many sacrifices but still want to make a difference. It makes me look bad in my own eyes. So right now all that I’ll do is to carry on to get my life on track. When and how to make a difference is a question I’ll always keep open and I am hopeful that I’ll find an answer soon. I don’t know how many of us feel this way. But for those who do, here is a great line from a popular Hindi song…”kuch aisa karke dikha, khud khush ho jaye khuda”.